Based on the events of the last few months, I’m starting to wonder if I’m mentally tough enough to handle SHTF. Three months of protests, some violence, lots of rumors. Rumors perpetuated by the media, hell, even started by them . . .
I’ve written a lot of articles on stress and its effects, and let me tell you—I’ve lived it, too.
But Robin, someone will say, you don’t live in Ferguson!
Nope, but my son goes to school very, very near those city limits and the whole thing is happening about eight miles from our house. As the crow flies, but who thinks a mob would limit themselves to the highways?
Social media doesn’t help. Back in the old days, we’d watch the evening news and shake our heads, probably getting a little tense, and have some discussion. Maybe burn up the phone lines. Now, with Twitter and Facebook, et al, we hear everyone’s thoughts, opinions, news stories, and flat-out made-up crap. Repeatedly.
It’s enough to drive me to drink. Wait, that’s a good idea. Hang on a sec.
Disclaimer—I’m writing this Saturday evening, not at 6:00 a.m. when you’ll be reading this.
And “the” media, CNN, NBC, ABC, CBS, etc. I’ve often decried the state of journalism, and this holds true. They simply cannot get their acts together. At all. None of them. And it’s a constant barrage of crap.
Okay, enough ranting. For now.
But seriously, you have to get a grip when SHTF. You can be prepared, yes, that’s good. Great. Wonderful. But you’ve seen that cartoon about the little old lady, right, the one where she tells the officer that she has all these guns in her car and he asks what she’s afraid of? She answers, “Not a damn thing!”
So if you’ve prepped, you’ve got no worries, right? We have food and water; we have weapons; we have a plan to stay and a plan to go. No problem, right?
It’s the waiting, the not knowing, that’ll kill you. Well, maybe not literally, but the mental stress and emotional angst will certainly lower your physical defenses. You might be tempted to sit around, doing nothing, reading the news, wandering from room to room, napping. Drinking. Ahem.
But this is a mistake. You need to eat right, and rest enough, and keep your mind occupied. Sure, keep up on what’s happening, you have to, that’s part of it all. But don’t obsess and take a break now and then.
I have to tell myself to back off, shut it down, and go do something. Preferably something physical to burn off all that extra adrenaline. Because you produce that stuff by the metric ton when you’re stressed and waiting and anticipating, and you need some physical activity to get rid of the excess.
Of course, when you stop to take a breather and check the news again, that’s when something new and worrisome crops up. It’s a vicious cycle.
You have to regain your focus, you have to discipline yourself. Over and over. And then again.
Well said. What will happen is going to occur whether you worry about it or NOT so why get physically and emotionally burned out over it? Obsessing isn’t going to resolve any issues, but rather exacerbate the problem to a point where the necessary could be overlooked or forgotten.
The common sense reaction should be to remain reasonably prepared as for any potential disaster, stay generally aware and go on living. Lock and load only when necessary. ~R
Each day the sun comes up and life goes on. FACT.
Yet why are you fretting about what is happening?
If you feel unsafe, run or lock and load.
There are only two choices there.
If you don’t want to do either just maintain a state of readiness.
Prepping is all about planning, not obsessing about “what if, might, and maybe.”
The fact that you are watching events just means you are situationally aware and will take appropriate action if it occurs.
Worrying is just a waste of energy and probably sleep.
Because it’s human nature.
Because it’s 24/7 in our faces.
Because there are so many unanswered questions: where, when, what.
Once you’re in a situation, being alert means being concerned about those what ifs. And how to react.
Nice thing I find about media is you can turn it off.
You can’t plan or prep for everything so once you have the basics covered there is nowhere else to go or think about.
Expedite your plan Robin, sleep well, and don’t worry so much.
You have the choices already discussed. You’ve probably prepped for them, you’ve trained for them, so there isn’t any point in worrying past them.